Frequently asked questions
Is nudity required?
No. You are welcome to remain clothed for part or all of the session. Every experience is different, and we'll discuss what feels comfortable before we begin. There is never any pressure to remove clothing or do anything you're not ready for.
Can I be nervous?
Absolutely. Many people feel nervous before their first session, especially if they're exploring something new. There's no expectation that you arrive feeling confident or knowing exactly what you want. We begin with conversation and move at a pace that feels comfortable for both of us.
What if I don't get an erection?
That's completely normal. Erections are possible, but they are never expected or required. Our sessions are about connection, pleasure, presence, and exploration, not performance. Bodies respond differently depending on many factors, and every response is welcome.
What if I cry?
You're welcome to. Intimacy, touch, pleasure, and feeling truly seen can sometimes bring unexpected emotions to the surface. Tears, laughter, stillness, joy, and vulnerability are all natural human responses. There is no need to apologise or feel embarrassed. Sometimes I cry too.
What should I wear?
Wear whatever helps you feel relaxed and comfortable. If we're meeting in a public place before the session, dress as you normally would. If we're meeting privately, comfortable clothing that is easy to move in is often ideal. You can also dress sexy, sensual or slutty. Whatever feels right.
Can couples come?
Yes. I enjoy working with couples of all genders, relationship styles, and levels of experience. Whether you're seeking deeper intimacy, exploring new desires, learning about BDSM, or inviting a trusted third person into your experience, every session is tailored to your relationship and your shared intentions.
Can I say no?
Always. Consent is central to everything I do. You can say no, ask to slow down, request a change, or stop the session at any time. Your boundaries will always be respected.
Can I change my mind?
Yes. Consent is an ongoing conversation, not a one-time agreement. It's completely okay to discover that something doesn't feel right or that you'd like to explore something different. We simply adjust together.
What hygiene do you expect?
Please arrive freshly showered and in good general health. Cleanliness, fresh breath, and good personal hygiene help create a comfortable experience for both of us. If our session includes intimate contact, we'll discuss safer sex practices beforehand. Barriers and condoms are used for any genital, oral-genital, or anal contact.
Can we talk before booking?
Yes. I encourage it. We can exchange messages or arrange a video call before meeting if you'd like to ask questions, discuss your wishes, or simply get a sense of whether we're a good fit. Building trust begins long before the session itself.
Consent & Communication
Every meaningful intimate experience begins with trust.
Consent is not simply a "yes" given at the beginning of a session. It is an ongoing conversation that starts with our first message and continues throughout our time together. We regularly check in with one another, making space for curiosity, honesty, and changing our minds.
Before we meet, we'll talk about your wishes, boundaries, interests, experience, and any questions you may have. You don't need to know exactly what you want. Many people arrive with uncertainty, and we can explore that together.
During our session, nothing happens without mutual agreement. Either of us can pause, slow down, change direction, or stop at any time, for any reason. Consent is never assumed, and saying "no" is always welcome. Clear communication creates the freedom to relax, play, and explore.
I also have my own boundaries. While I deeply enjoy creating authentic, intimate experiences, I never offer activities that fall outside my comfort, values, or professional practice. Mutual respect means that both of our boundaries matter equally.
For sessions involving BDSM, power exchange, or more intense forms of play, we will discuss limits, expectations, safer practices, and aftercare beforehand. Safe words and check-ins are always part of these experiences.
I believe the most fulfilling encounters happen when neither of us is performing or trying to meet imagined expectations. Instead, we meet as two people sharing an experience built on respect, presence, and genuine connection.
My hope is that you leave feeling more connected to your body, your desires, and yourself than when you arrived.
Clients must be 18+ with valid ID. Deposits are non-refundable. We reserve the right to refuse service.
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